General musings and random ramblings *TRIGGERS*

[selena]

Jaq, he is absolutely right.

By the way, that nice floral dress inspired me too and maybe one day I'll buy one too, as I stopped wearing dresses and nice skirts since quite long time.

[Jaquaia]

J's definitely right.

I understand where you are coming from as I've had similar and other things too......

I don't think I'd realised just how much of a scar they'd left until I met J. He's really good for me.

Those clothes are lovely. I love bright colours too. Nothing wrong with them. And I love J's comments. He's definitely a keeper.

He really is, he doesn't think so but he knows I think he's wrong on that! I'm generally not one for bright colours, I tend to wear more muted colours but red does tend to suit me and the dress did really catch my eye. My main worry was that it would stand out and draw peoples eyes

Jaq, he is absolutely right.

By the way, that nice floral dress inspired me too and maybe one day I'll buy one too, as I stopped wearing dresses and nice skirts since quite long time.

I think the trick is finding a style that compliments your body shape. Work out what colours work for you, what cut of clothing highlights your best features and skims over the bits you don't like.

I've been wearing more jeggings and longline tops that come to at least my hips. Shorter tshirts just make me feel self conscious as they ride up. If I wear dresses, then I tend to suit ones that are tighter under my boobs and then drape and I tend to wear a lot of autumnal and fairly natural colours like rust, greens, blues, purples.

Yellows make me look ill, white makes me look really pale and certain cuts of clothing make me look a lot bigger then I am! Bulky clothing can make you look bigger too. You just need to find what works for you