How was the call?
It's not fair for you to judge your partner based on your last one. Talk to her. Tell her you're finding it tough to open up, but you can feel things slipping away....
How was the call?
It's not fair for you to judge your partner based on your last one. Talk to her. Tell her you're finding it tough to open up, but you can feel things slipping away....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
The call was stressful can't help but think there going to sack me.
OPINION / RECOMMENDATIONS
In my clinical opinion
Mr... is still struggling to leave the house. I am unable to provide an indication of a
return to work date at present. I am hopeful that he may be fit for his role in the coming weeks
with appropriate control of his symptoms and support. I have advised him to contact his GP to try and obtain an earlier appointment. You may wish to consider funding specialist counselling if this
is available.
Recommendations to Manager / HR:
• *Counselling *Some support longer term could include a stress assessment and phased
return with shadowing support) *Occupational Health Physician (OHP) appointment to be
considered if ongoing issues.
Recommendations to Employee:
• *Lifestyle advice *Counselling support- may benefit some specialist counselling if this is
available. *Appears to be engaging with medical support
HML Next Actions:
• *I am unable to provide an indication of a return to work date *Hopeful may be fit in the
coming weeks but not fit to return to work at present. Report copy; same time
I don't see how they offered anything to help me?
That is really positive! They've recommended counselling and whether the company you work for have insurance where they can provide private counselling..
It says that you are working with medical teams, but you need to see if you can get an earlier appointment and states that atm they aren't able to suggest a back to work date.
It's good news.
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john82 (20-10-20)
I don’t understand why you think that outcome means they’re going to sack you. They’ve said you’re not well enough yet, but that they are hopeful you can in the coming weeks, with the right support. They’ve made positive recommendations and ways for the company to help you. This is a good outcome, lovely
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Hey that is a very positive report. They are saying that you are doing all you can to get better and that you are not fit for work right now. They have offered advise the the company on what they can do to support you and ease you back into work when you are ready. That’s pretty much the kinda outcome you needed. It’s all good mate.
john82 (20-10-20)
I guess it's me automatically thinking the worse again.
I told the lady I didn't want to lose my job as its the only place I've worked and I'm afraid if I lost it then there's no reason to go back outside the house again. I just need support and I can't get any help atm due to covid it's limited to what I can do
What is limited because of covid?
Today - are you up? Washed? Dressed? Had something to eat? Drink? Taken your meds?
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I meant the support is limited due to covid even my mental health practitioner is frustrated. He ended up calling the psychiatrists the last time I spoke to him to let them know I had no Dr's and that he was worried I had no support. Im not to happy with that part of the report where she mentions I should keep calling the psychiatrists to push it, as the mental health practitioner has already done it
Still not heard nothing.
I've not long got up sleeping was bad last night was awake till 3am then awake at 6 when the over thinking starts worrying about work etc.
But maybe you calling the psychiatrist would actually push things along
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
All you can do is call them and try asking for a cancellation or something?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!