Hi James, sorry to hear about your struggle with going to the dentist. I know how it is to think people are judging you. But if your teeth need looking after I believe that every dentist will be happy to help.

I remember that where I am from there are special programs for people with these problems. I like how you are joining forums and doing research. But maybe try to phone a dentist. And ask what the options are. With regards to your fears and questions. If they can not help you there they might know where you could be helped. Best if luck.