It might be an idea to point out that they need to get their act together, because you aren't going to be there for much longer. If they don't help themselves it's not your responsibility Jaq. You have a life of your own and in the not too distant future you'll be living with J. What will they do then? Thank the Lord they have you there to help with everything. Blow the baking! I'm all for helping parents but not to the extent that it compromises my own well being. Any driving test on the horizon yet?