I'm glad you're stopping trying to list everything too....
Sweetheart I had a bit of a crash down about Christmas too, but you know what I realised? It doesn't matter if we're eating beans on toast (or just toast as H doesn't like beans) the only thing that matters really is that we are together. Presents are nice, but not essential. I don't send many Christmas cards at all and would rather put that money aside to run this place for a while... Anyone who matters not only won't mind, but will understand. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth worrying about...