What kinda negativity? Nowt wrong with that, it looks good.
What kinda negativity? Nowt wrong with that, it looks good.
Oh no, you need a different colour, it's far too bright. Try it in black...
But I don't want to hide away in black anymore!
Oh and this was a good one... she looked through the clothes I'm getting rid of and held up a vest top.
"Why are you getting rid of this?"
"Because it's a bit big"
"What? Even on you?"
...
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Ouch! That's the kind of comments I grew up with too, so I understand how bad they are...
I'm glad you got that red number, I can see it suiting you really well...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I love the T-shirt dress in red, I think it's really flattering. Bright colours will be nice on you. If you got it..flaunt it!!...I take it mum wasn't nominated for this years Tact Awards!! I'd give anything for bigger boobs. I have a broad back too which doesn't help. I think the almighty put me together with what he'd got left! Never mind, I'll have to make do with what I've got. I don't think anyone's really happy with what they've got. But we're perfect in the eyes of those who love us and that's all that counts.
I was telling J about some of the things I grew up hearing, like if I got rid of my spare tyre then I would look ok, often while she was grabbing it. It really annoyed him. In hindsight, there is no surprise that I'm extremely self conscious about my middle!!!
Clothes that look demure on the model look really revealing on me!!! I have one vest top which has a beautiful pattern and is a lovely jersey material but I can only wear it if I wear a vest with a higher neckline underneath! Kind of defeats the object of wearing strappy tops in summer really... definitely one I couldn't wear in public...
I have a broad back, I've been big since I was little too, I've never known what it's like to be slim. I've been bullied over my size since I was 5 years old, had strangers shout things at me in the street, grew up with those comments from my mum and then had dickhead saying things like he never touched me because my body put him off. There is no wonder I have so many issues about how I look!
But J makes me feel beautiful and he is always telling me that I am. He tells me that he thinks I'm absolutely perfect the way I am and he loves all of it; that everything makes up me and it is me that he's in love with. He tells me that I just need some extra TLC because I've been treated badly
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Looks good Jaq, we love you the way you are.
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
Jaquaia (22-04-18)
Well done J
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Jaquaia (22-04-18)
He is pretty awesome
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Those clothes are lovely. I love bright colours too. Nothing wrong with them. And I love J's comments. He's definitely a keeper.
Jaquaia (22-04-18)
J's definitely right.
I understand where you are coming from as I've had similar and other things too......
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Jaquaia (22-04-18)