Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
I think that you need to try other groups to meet up with. Maybe some with more similar interests to you or a more similar age group?
I'm gonna stick it out with this meetup as there's no other groups in bolton. I'm penciled in to meet with them on Thurs & Fri at a bar. There's around 23 people attending on these nights out so should be interesting!. It's not always the same people as they rotate on a waiting list but most are the same. The problem with me is as soon as I don't feel comfortable with 1 person I can't be myself at all.

A lot of them are very assertive & I'm very timid. I try to fake my confidence but it doesn't hold much weight. If I had a career like most of these people then I'd feel more assured but my support work has since dried up. I'm trying to get into admin to have another string to my bow but I'm not sure how. How are you supposed to find a sense of purpose if no one will give you a chance? ..