Golf? Pit and put is more my style.
Mitz thanks for the suggestions, i will lookinto them but i have to admit i am a bit wary of internet meet up. I like to meet people through social events arranged by people i know, but that sounds quite fun. I hate going to a restaurant to eat on my own. Your at the table all alone and everybody else is with someone. Even Chinese buffets. I feel as if everyone is staring at me. "look at Billy nio mates over there".