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    Then join clubs there are normally loads which may at first not be your ideal, but join them to meet people and have a good time. Choirs, book groups, sports teams, volunteer at things, running clubs etc etc etc
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I wish I was never born. All my life I've been a passenger to every1 elses happiness. Its easier for people who have friends or a relationship because they have a support system. Loners don't have that reassurance to keep them goin.. I've looked after the house often while my mum was away & I didn't like bein completely alone at all. I have so much hatred towards my 'brother' but that doesn't mean I wanna move. Most people in this needy society would not be able to cope without friends, affection. I've been strugglin without that ALL MY LIFE, & people wonder why I'm the way I am (timid & vulnerable). These socialites would be exactly the same if their needs of love weren't bein met ..

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    If you are feeling genuinely like you wish that you hadn't been born then you need an urgent review by your Dr and to push for more help. If you are in any danger of hurting yourself or others then please get to the nearest A+E department, call the samaritans or crisis line..
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I think you think everyone else is having a great time, socialising, meeting people, but its not the case I assure you.

    Several pages ago you said you have trouble at work tying knots and you need help with that. Do you mind me asking, are you actually able to work full-time, what qualifications did you get at school?

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    ye I'm perfectly capable to work, just jobs r scarce so I'm stuck in fast food for now. I get about £130 a week with that & my universal credit. I got pretty bad grades (lots of E's & F's), I'm bad at everythin apart from English & IT (C&D). U can tell just from my posts that I have quite the vocabulary . I'm prob dispraxic with my shoelaces, swimmin etc. And Suzi I've asked my GP countless times for a proper diagnosis, he says the same thing everytime; that its social anxiety stemmin from shyness when young & my 'medium level' depression is a result of that .

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    Then you need to ask for more help - maybe a referral to the CMHT if you are thinking such dark thoughts.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Tonight was really weird, I was invited around some girls house who I literally just spoke to for the 1st time 2day on facebook. Anyway when I met her she was on the phone all night to various men pesterin them to visit her. I was sat at her table in disbelief while her & her friend chatted away on the phone for hours to random guys. Like why even invite me in the 1st place?. I seriously don't get the thinkin behind some people. I spent £10.00 taxi fair in total there & back as well ..

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    That is odd. Why did you go?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    That must of been awkward i would of thought of a excuse to leave lol. I guess there just after attention from guys seeing as there inviting guys over the same day they first talk to them...

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    That is weird!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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