Maybe you could have a look outside your immediate area? I'm sure not all of Bolton is that rough...
Maybe you could have a look outside your immediate area? I'm sure not all of Bolton is that rough...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
My town is known the length and breadth of the country for having a very, very bad image. That doesn't mean I spend my days and nights in the bad areas. I stick with my own kind and socialize with people I like.
Suzi (24-04-19)
Hey lovely. Your thread is over a 100 pages long. Maybe its time to close this one and start a new one?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Suzi (24-04-19)
I went to another meetup last night, this time it was a quiz night. It was a chilled evening at a cafe/games place. 1 of the older women there was very patronizing. Everytime I spoke she would speak to me in a strict tone for no reason whatsoever. She even berated me for not being into Harry Potter! . I also felt like my suggestions were being ignored at times. I hate it when I speak and then people look away and I'm not acknowledged. A lot of fellow introverts will relate to this. In the company of highly extroverted people it can feel like you're indirectly ostracized. Like they're somehow superior because of the adventurous lifestyles they lead in comparison.
I've got another 2 scheduled for next Thurs & Fri. I could have stayed out as I was in the mood for a dance but didn't realise my old friend was in town until I got home. Later on, the whole in street walked into my kitchen and sat down in front of my mum smoking weed till after 2am. It's easy to say kick them out but it could have escalated as they were drunk so we tried to keep the peace. They were civil but it was completely disrespectful . I'm not sure about creating a new thread but I guess I could think about it.
Last edited by SA89; 27-04-19 at 09:43 PM.
At 124 pages, this is too long really... Please start a new one and I'll close this one.
I think your Mum needs to set some ground rules as that behaviour is totally unacceptable.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!