Hi Jane and welcome. You are not useless, you love and care for her, as is obvious from your distress at her pain, and that love and care is absolutely the number 1 thing she needs from you.
Is she getting help and support from her doctor?
Hi Jane and welcome. You are not useless, you love and care for her, as is obvious from your distress at her pain, and that love and care is absolutely the number 1 thing she needs from you.
Is she getting help and support from her doctor?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.