I had PND with each of mine. One midwife told me to "just get over it" and asked "Why you not ask for tummy tuck when you have caesarean? You then not be so fat!" I kid you not. This when I was already in a rubbish state....

After that I didn't talk to anyone about what was going on in my head - what was the point?
However my HV was fabulous after she was called to me rocking in the reception of our Drs when they'd forgotten to book me in for my 8 week check with F. I had hoped that things had got better in the last 16 years....