I cannot deal with this anymore. How can a person intentionally be so vile and nasty to a brother who has only offered help and support.
When am I such a stupid fool to a) be so upset and sad about it and b) keep re-engaging with her thinking things will change.
My sister has really upset me again. I've had tears tonight and fleeting suicidal ideation.
This is what happened. She bumped into a French guy I've talked to before, in the pub near hers on Friday.
I had been talking to her via email, supporting her with her health and a injury claim all week..
I'd had an argument with this guy when we were both drinking. Over how I pronounced his name. We were both rude to each other.
This guy lied to her that I was xenophobic and homophobic and she believed him. A total stranger.
She sent 4 emails when she was drunk. 1st accused me of being a xenophobe and homophobe. 2nd said she's smarter than me so I'd look like a dick if I was trying to gaslight her (over rejecting those vile allegations), 3rd said nobody seems to like you, not surprised you moved. I moved from my old place 9 months ago for health reasons. There's no truth to the allegations, the guy lied and is stirring I guess cuz we had an argument.
I cannot take it anymore. I have vulnerable mental health and she's emotionally abusing me. I'm so down because of it.
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. So, how do you think you can change things?
