I'm glad you're finding what we say helpful hunni.
Her reactions are NOT your fault at all. Please know that.
I'm glad you're finding what we say helpful hunni.
Her reactions are NOT your fault at all. Please know that.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Can I ask whether you really want to be with her, or whether it’s just easier not to rock the boat?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I feel that I am better off alone for now, and she is possibly not what I’m looking for in a partner. I would like to be alone for a few months or whatever amount of time would help me settle. But I really don’t want to upset her, she has no family or friends over here, she moved here for a job and then I met her. I feel like I’m all she has
Would it be possible for you to go back to being friends?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Maybe, I think I shall tell her that I need more time apart and see if she maybe feels less stressed too. Thanks for your help