Hunni, you are allowed to tell her she was out of order. Maybe you could help her find other ways to deal with stress etc?
Hunni, you are allowed to tell her she was out of order. Maybe you could help her find other ways to deal with stress etc?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
When I was a teenager, one year I forgot Mother’s Day. It took 2 weeks for my mum to admit to me how hurt she was. That incident had 2 consequences. One, I realised that I should never take it for granted that I could behave how I wanted and mum could take it on the chin just because she’s a mum. Two, I really wished she’d told me earlier - I was devastated that she felt she couldn’t talk to me about it, but also I was devastated that she’d been carrying this hurt, that I’d caused, around for 2 weeks
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.