There’s been so many times over the years when I’ve been convinced my husband would be better off without me, that he surely couldn’t love me given how vile I thought I was, and that he was only with me because he felt sorry for me and was too kind to leave me. None of which is true. In fact, the opposite is true. He tells me that he is proud of me every day because I fight, that I’m the strong one for getting through what I do and that he loves me even more because of it. The right person, hunni, will say the same to you.