Hunni, my husband had depression, anxiety, social phobia and undiagnosed aspergers syndrome before I knew him. I fell in love with him. He's had 2 breakdowns and we've been to hell and back quite a few times. We're still together and have been for almost 22 years and I love him more today than I ever have done. Having ill mental health does not make you unlovable! You just haven't met the right person yet....