Carer nearing the beginning of the end.

[Mira]

Hello, nice to meet you. I am no expert but I did want to reply.

First let me tell you that no one here compares themselfs to others. We all experience things different so there is no way to know who has it worse and who does not. Its not a race. But we do want to be there for each other and help in what way we can. Not proffesional but never the less.

I am sorry to hear what you and your family are going through. One thing I have learned from experience myself is that we can not make people do something they dont want to do. Be that therapy or anything else for that matter.

But maybe there are other things you could do? Instead of bringing up seeing help try to make her and yourself smile again. Find some joy in the small things. Ask her what would make her happy. I can understand how you might feel if its still worth it. Thats why I feel joy and doing something together that you both like will help.
It would be a shame if you both were to get more bitter with each other.

If what I wrote is not helping at all please disregard it. I was trying to think out aloud.