If knitting is lazy then I'm the laziest woman on the planet. I'm the same...feel guilty about everything but know I shouldn't...it's a hard monkey to shift! My mum could never sit down and it usually resulted in an argument with dad. Ian loves it when I relax. Funnily enough I was talking to a lady in the village and I said that I feel guilty if I don't walk every day and she said to me: "Guilt is a useless commodity Jenny, you shouldn't feel guilty over anything!" Wonder if that's why she always has a smile on her face?