Oh hunni, that sounds like an awful lot to be trying to deal with. You're right he has a past, but hunni so do you. Could he not move things so it's not always in your face? You seem to be doing an awful lot of the moving stuff around when you really shouldn't be - especially not atm when you're run down, and not right with meds - and totm too. Hunni you're only human - superhuman, but human none the less. I think any of us would struggle with all of that! You need to talk more, get it out of your head.... I'm glad you've started talking...