That’s absolutely wonderful! I’m so chuffed for you-.gif ")")
That’s absolutely wonderful! I’m so chuffed for you
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Oh that's so amazing. I've recently got back a friendship from 20 years ago so I understand that feeling! I'm so glad for you!
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Thank you! I'm really happy about it too! We've put everything behind us and have decided to meet up once the lockdowns over
Suzi (11-05-20)
That's amazing x
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Yes for sure. However I've been thinking since the morning and I also think it's life cruel to run everything in my face. My best friend is still happy in her relationship of almost 3 years and she never went out, she avoided most things in her life due to her anxiety and yet she is still happy. I have always been successful in my job, I've got a supportive family, a car to take me anywhere and the ability to be independent. I volunteer every now and then and I'm very creative. However I still lost the man I love.
A very high majority of my friends are in happy relationships and I don't remember ever having a problem with not being in a relationship but ever since I lost Joe, everything seems unfair.
Hunni thinking in that way isn't going to help you at all. Events and choices happened on all sides leading to where each person is....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I know it's not going to help me cause it is very heartbreaking to think like that but I can't stop thinking like that. I mean, its not a even a thought, it's a fact. I don't know how to handle the feeling of being not worthy. This is my depression
But there are so many factors. This isn't "just" down to you having depression....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
No no, I wasn't saying that the reason was my depression. The fact that I struggle with feeling worthy is part of my depression. And how factors could there possibly be for someone to chose to be with another? It's simple the way I see it, personality and making an effort. He had the right personality but not the ability to make an effort to take our relationship to the next level.
Which may mean he’s not right for you. I know you think he’s your soul mate but surely your soul mate would try harder. I believe there’s someone out there for you that would walk to the ends Of the earth for you
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Suzi (11-05-20)
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