It depends what kind of thing you are looking for... You could start with the factsheets that Paula has posted here...
It depends what kind of thing you are looking for... You could start with the factsheets that Paula has posted here...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
just light read or videos that someone has found useful to them?
I don't know of anything off the top of my head... but I'll think..
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
So my best friend is currently in Australia and met a girl there so he's been hanging around with for some months now and he bought her a car, a phone and they been spending every minute together. I don't at all like my best friend in a romantic way but everytime I try to speak to him, he's always going on about her and he's having tree he best time of his life and so he's more concerned about this girl. Which again, is understandable. But the whole thing makes me feel uncomfortable and when I really think about it, 1. Although I should be happy for him, I can't fully be happy, 2. I feel like a bad friend and 3. It makes me feel like "left out".
Most of my friends are in a relationship and I'm not one to be upset about that normally but now it's really hard to accept because all those people remind me of what I lost. It makes me feel like everyone is against me and purposely trying to rub it in my face and it reminds me of the love that I have lost. What do they all have that I don't?
It's normal to feel "left out" when your best friend is in a new relationship... And I know that you'll be thinking "why can't I have that?" But it doesn't mean you won't in the future...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
You're right. I really wish I could see things the way everyone else does
You will, lovely, you will. And in the meantime, we’re here for you
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Stella180 (09-05-20)
In time you will.
I'll just leave you these.gif "(bear)")
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
Thank you all!
So a revolutionary thing that happened over the long weekend...I woke up yesterday feeling grumpy about all the house work I had to do and my phone went off. I thought it was just a notification. But it was actually my best friend of 10 years who I havent spoken to in 2 years. We had fallen out 2 years ago and never spoke again and I never thought we'd ever speak again. Yet she messaged saying that she was sorry for everything. I ran to my mum to tell her and my mum said "well thats the thing, you always think that you're a good person who tries to do the right thing but bad things always happens to you but good things do happen, they have just taken you a little longer as will other things". I think I actually have a tiny bit of hope now...I was expecting it to happen at all.
Stella180 (11-05-20)
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