I know it's tough, but you still can do things like take Talia for a walk, you have your garden - I know it's not the same, but right now it's going to take everyone to be ultra careful to stop this thing...
You can still have some contact with people, just not in a pub, club, sporting or leisure setting. You can still talk to people online/skype/whatsapp/facetime etc I know it's going to be really hard, especially as you've just discovered social events that you enjoy and love like Aspies, but you will get through this....