A huge part of me feels like I'm overreacting and making things more difficult
A huge part of me feels like I'm overreacting and making things more difficult
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I do not think you are overreacting. This is how you feel. And feelings are important. And most of the time they are good indicators. And I do think you have a good sense.
Jaquaia (29-11-19)
Overreacting? I know I’m a drama queen but I think you’re underreacting. In your situation, I’d be jumping up and down. But, you’re not me and that’s not how you do things. However, J does seem (from everything you’ve said) to do everything very, very carefully which is sometimes a good thing. But sometimes it’s not .....
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Overreacting? Definitely not! This is important. It's not just about him and his kids, it's about your future too love and mostly about your heart and emotions....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
How are things today?
Things are ok. Feeling a little flat. I've made him narrow meeting the children down to before they go back to school. Apparently Thomas has asked a fair few questions about me and J said he seems to be much more comfortable about me than he is with her partner.
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Sending a for how you are feeling.
Its good you put meeting the children before going back to school. When is that? I bet those days are different here. And I would be curious too and ask questions. But that also means he is interested.
From what you told us I can truly believe why he would be more comfortable around you then around her partner. For one I can believe that the atmosphere is way more relaxed on your side of the family. And I think you have a good effect on people as well. So those are all good signs.
Jaquaia (30-11-19)
When do they go back to school?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
7th January. I've suggested my meeting them for lunch and maybe a day out the week after
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But that's not till after Christmas..... I thought that's what you were hoping for?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!