Hi and welcome . How do you help her? By doing exactly what you’re doing - listening to her, not pressuring her, giving her space but also a listening ear when she needs it. But, she’s been through a lot and very recently so the chances are she really doesn’t know what she wants right now. Heavy conversations might be beyond her at this moment in time but she does need to talk so try to encourage her to keep up with the counselling.

And look after yourself .....