Dating someone with depression and anxiety

[Suzi]

Hi and welcome to DWD.
What kind of things do you want to know? I found it easier just to ask about each thing more specifically when I was desperately in need of help when my husband was ill and then had a breakdown.
It's great to see you here trying to help. That's hugely important for her.

[hudson88]

Hi and welcome to DWD.
What kind of things do you want to know? I found it easier just to ask about each thing more specifically when I was desperately in need of help when my husband was ill and then had a breakdown.
It's great to see you here trying to help. That's hugely important for her.

Thanks
Well specifically when she has bad days / weeks how best to cope and how best to deal with the emotional roller coaster

for example when she has good days everything is fine we get on amazing, but when she has bad days she pushes me away and says things like im better off without her, i deserve someone better, then when good days come she says dont leave me, even when i push you away please dont leave me i want to be with you forever

It can be really confusing getting such mixed messages I know its a lot to do with her