Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
You do have to look after you - if you don't then you can't look after her.
Also, just as an aside you know that we have separate sections here for men and women so she could join if you both thought it might help and you'd both have separate areas to talk...
Thanks

The inevitable has happened, she asked to split up

shes not in the frame of mind for a relationship and furthermore she has told me that she needs to find herself and get herself back together

it hurts like hell especially after her asking me to never leave her when she pushes me away, but i cannot force myself to make her have a relationship

i have never put so much into one relationship and given it my all. i want so much to help her out here, but think the only way i can help her atm is to do as she asks and hope one day she reflects on things