No rules broken lovely! Just guidelines. Admin will always put trigger warnings in if they feel a post may upset people. And don't worry about language, we have a swear filter in place
I know how scary change is. You're talking to a girl who stayed in a cleaning job for 10 years because the thought of having an interview for something else absolutely terrified me. Same reason for why I've started to learn how to drive so late and then it was a case of necessity. That first step is always the hardest. I'm currently studying through the OU and loving it.