Also in regards to SS, as I mentioned before, where I live, they do and have taken children away from their mothers due to mental illness and they weren’t at risk at all; I know these women well and I know they loved and looked after their children so well; not neglected, clean and healthy etc, always loved and played with. Children were polite etc, but just because their Mummy had ptsd from an incident years before they were born I one case, they were removed from her care and it has destroyed them.
These Mums have been told if they have any more children either, they’ll be taken away too which is absolutely vile.
And one of these also had a supportive partner. I think it depends on the SS in your area.
I don’t know. But around here they are notorious for going after any woman with a mental illness even if she’s a fantastic mother, or targeting women just because they grew up in care - like that’s their fault!?
So I don’t believe for a second that SS won’t target me too. I do not trust them around here.
I will steer as far away as possible from them.