Hi, sweetheart, and welcome . As Jaq says, rude, nasty, toxic comments and behaviour are not accepted here, ever. You will only find warmth, friendship and support here.

I’m so sorry for the way you’ve been treated - there is never any excuse for treating anyone like that. Also, as a Christian, I am appalled and disgusted by the way your ex friend and husband have behaved. I promise you that someone who truly believes in, and follows, Jesus would never be so hideously awful to anyone. Matthew ch 22 tells us that Jesus said that the greatest commandments are that we love God with all our heart and love our neighbour (ie everyone) as ourselves. Hunni, I’m not for shoving my faith down someone’s throat but I just wanted you to understand what being a Christian really means.....