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    Princess Sparkles Paula's Avatar
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    We were spoilt with our current car. When we were looking, this car was immediately available because another motability customer cancelled at the last minute. He’d arranged for all the bells and whistles to be added to it so we got a much better spec car for the reduced advance payment we were prepared to pay. That’s not likely to happen this time so we’re having to adjust our expectations, unless we find £3000 just lying around lol. And, unfortunately, we’re not allowed to keep this car any longer

    Anyone who was wondering, a motability car is not free. The mobility element of my PiP is taken away and a good proportion of the cars require an advance payment of anything up to £6,500. That’s not to say I’m ungrateful as it’s a great scheme that makes cars accessible for those who need it, but it’s not something for nothing
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    I'd hope that anyone would realise that it's never something for nothing....

    Hope you work things out....
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    Sorry I might have missed this but why is it that you are not allowed to keep this car any longer?

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    Guardian of the North and kipper holder Angie's Avatar
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    You keep them for 3 years unless that has changed at a guess it is because or partly because a brand new car has its first mot which is to check its safe to be on the road etc at 3 years old.
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    Princess Sparkles Paula's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Angie View Post
    You keep them for 3 years unless that has changed at a guess it is because or partly because a brand new car has its first mot which is to check its safe to be on the road etc at 3 years old.
    Yep, over 3 years they reckon they start costing too much
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    My dad has his car adjusted for my mum to travel in. Unfortunately mum will never travel in the front seat of a car again. However, dad doesn't pay the VAT on a new car, because of the modification. Like in the UK, he has to keep his car under 3 years old, to be able to claim the VAT reduction.
    Now, dad is not driving anymore. He turned 85 in May, and his GP has said that he is better off in the passenger seat. My dad's latest car was purchased just last August.
    My sister travels over and back to Athenry every day, which is a round trip of about 55 miles. My other sister wants dad to will Sarah the car, because of all the help she has given them for the last few years. It remains to be seen.

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    You're quiet - are you OK?
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    Mind reader . No, I’m not. Si’s taken the week off last minute and I’m beginning to understand why. I popped to the doctor to pick up some paperwork for Bath and intended to have a mooch round the home and clothing sections in Sainsbury's on my way home. Except, I bottled it, drove straight home, shaking.

    Si says it was my coping mechanisms kicking in, telling me I couldn’t cope with it atm, I feel like an idiot
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Well you're not. It's completely understandable with everything you've got going on
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    You have a lot on ATM. Your spoons are going out left, right and centre. Can you take it easy tomorrow?

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