Hi Michael, i can understand how this would make you feel. But from what I read your wife is making demands on you eventhough she does not want you to return.

I would like to say that you need to look out for yourself. If your mental health is as stake then looking for a job that helps you with thats is a big thing to look into. And make that happen.

And this to me sounds like you are providing for a family. Not your family. Otherwise she would want you there.

I am not saying this to be harsh. But this is how it comes over to me.

It took me a while to seek help and I lost a lot of people along the way. But looking after myself is important. Not just for me but for the people around me too.

You deserve to be the best Michael you can be. As do your children.