Maybe you should try to let those things go a little. When I think about it this would be how I would like things to be. (because of my mental health sadly I can not)
I like those rings of influance. Where you are in the centre one. The next one bigger is family and close friends. Then are the other people you know and then come the strangers.
The further outwards you get the less you should let them impact you. Or fase you.
You yourself are most important. Your views and Dreams and morale. Then your close friends and family. They can give advice and you value that. And take things to heart.
Until you get to the ring with strangers. What they say is easier to dismiss.i hope I explained it ok.
