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    When are you starting your sessions?

    I'm wondering if maybe you should wait a little before jumping in with any relationship. You need to work through your history first and make you in a better place...
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    I have been today.

    It helped for sure.

    But well, I just didn't want to be rude when he messaged me this morning. I had written before that it would be better for him to leave me in peace. I'm deeply depressed and he deserves bettter woman in his life. Not to mention of course all my anxieties and insecurities. I've got simply mad...My imagination and head is troubled.

    He replied in the morning that no, he does not want to leave me for anything. But he got the message that I'm not ready for flirt. He wrote that I'm beautiful, intelligent and courageous and worth much more than I think. He sent his pic, he looked really tired, saying that he had a hard day before and works on Saturday too. He asked me about my schedule for today and said everything worse because I'm alone in the week-end.
    I know he is ready for a new relationship, but not sure and also because I'm in grief.

    I'm very confused and just don't want to imagine/blame him as a liar, I have no evidence.

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    There's no harm talking to him as a friend....
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    Better woman? Sorry, love, but that’s not the case. Yes, right now you’re possibly in the wrong place for a relationship but that doesn’t mean that you’re not worthy of having a man who treats you like a princess (pref a tough one like Moana ). It’s not whether you’re good enough for him, it’s whether he’s good enough for you
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Thank you everybody. Your support does mean a lot to me.

    The psychologist said that the upcoming days (nearly a month) will be the hardest and if I need to take antidepressants not to wait and be refferred to the psychiatrist.

    That's true that these days are really hard.

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    Sorry lovely, when did you see the psychologist? Who will be prescribing the medication?
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    Yesterday.

    The medication just in case of necessity can be prescribed here only by psychiatrist.

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    Then I'd say get a referral to the psychiatrist... However, I'm really, really glad you're seeing a psychologist!
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    I had a major breakdown yesterday evening. My hidden emotions burst.

    It's strange...but today I'm feeling better.

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    Have you arranged the psychiatrist appointment?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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