I have mixed feelings about it...
Of course, I will be careful...

There is nothing to complain really about...but I wish he were more attentive.
He was delighted first, but a little sceptical about the distance between us.

There is also a kind of my "inner conflict".

In my country, there is more traditional principle "the man should pay nearly for everything". And my local friends probably will be upset, if it is not the case.

I was raised only by my mom and rather independent myself regardless of the difficulties. That is true that internet relationship and/or friendship can turn to be different in reality.

I think that the woman should pay herself for accomodation and feeling comfortable about it.

I do not know however about the local city transport fees, food expenses or charges for visiting a certain place (like museum).
I do not feel comfortable to ask anyone. If it was a female friend, I would say I return if I don't have this sum or on my card.

But I cannot stay silent, if he suggests something and I cannot pay or it will be for me too expensive.