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    Boss Lady ;) Suzi's Avatar
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    Can you bypass her? As in, if your nephew has a phone could you text/call him and them get him to deal wiht your sister and asking her rather than you having to deal with that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
    Can you bypass her? As in, if your nephew has a phone could you text/call him and them get him to deal wiht your sister and asking her rather than you having to deal with that?
    Good suggestion. In the end it turned out reasonably well and quite paradoxical. My difficult sister was reasonably well behaved, apart from some little anger outbursts. I'm utilising a new method of PET (try not to take things Personally, don't Engage in argument and Tune out to any mutterings) She can't argue with herself but she knows my vulnerabilities. In conjunction with giving a wide birth and building up my self esteem I think it's a positive work in progress.

    The paradoxical thing was my nephew was I'll and I went to the Spurs game on my own to use the tickets!

    With releasing the memory balloon of Brighton pier in the sunshine it was a successful day. I hate lability and anticipatory anxiety.

    Thanks for all the support folks and be well.

    M

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    That’s really good to hear
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    Just wanted to extend my thanks and gratitude to you guys for replying. Be well.

    M

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