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OK, why did you cry at housegroup?
What is it that terrifies you about the assessment? I can talk you through what happens and how it's all done if you want? I've been to loads now as I take me for mine, Marc for his, his Mum for hers..... Oh and always claim back the cost of getting there and home again
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I cried because I’ve been holding the tension for 2 weeks now. What terrifies me is a combination of stress over actually getting there and coping with the environment, worry about whether I’m going to answer their questions and, mainly, fear that they’ll call me a fraud ......
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
You are NOT a fraud! I know it's on your mind but talk about it. We're here to listen.
Paula (17-01-19)
You aren't a fraud. I felt like a fraud, but when you start listing the issues you have and looking at what you can't do - instead of what you can and you know deep down that you aren't. If it doesn't go how it should then you put in a MR, then a tribunal... You can do this.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I can only echo what Suzi and Magie have said, you'll have Si with you to put them straight
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
I've no words of wisdom but always a hug. X
I got a text from my boss saying she’s off sick so I can’t work tomorrow - I’m not allowed by occ health to do the shift on my own. That doesn’t make me feel good at all but I suppose I shouldn’t feel like a fraud and useless at the same time, right?
Still, it means I get to see mum and dad
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Silver lining
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I think right now you seeing your parents is more important anyway... You could do with their extra love and support in person right now...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Paula (17-01-19)