Me, part 673 *TRIGGERS*

[Strugglingmum]

ok. I'm going to tell you something that I say to my daughter

I never want you to have to stick at something that is really making you miserable and causing you so much stress that you are feeling ill.

However, I want you to know that you CAN do it.

I don't want your life to be limited by your fears and anxieties because your fears and anxiety about it are 100times worse than the reality.
You were so excited at the thought of learning and the independence it would bring you.
I know driving is stressful and I would hate to be learning again but unless you can relax a little so that your head can process what you are learning it is going to be difficult to get to the stage of enjoying it.
I'm sure you have tried different ways of relaxing or meditating before your lessons and I probably have no new suggestions but try to keep the end goal in sight.

Believe in yourself. Easier said than done but you need to to give you the confidence to enjoy and seek that independence.
Tell yourself...… its only pedals and a wheel. I can do this.