I've manually approved your post as we don't normally allow hyperlinks for newbie posters - but I think these need to stay to fully have a grasp at what you went through.
They look horrific and actually made me choke up as I saw them - I am so glad you got out. How you got out safely though I'll never know...
I understand why you're feeling guilty for not getting the other few things out of the car, but blimey, you got your GF out and you got YOU out. You did brilliantly.
For the record when I was really concerned about driving (and the possibility of scratching/crashing) Marc's pride and joy (BMW 325ise) he once told me that it didn't matter what happened to anything as long as the soft and squishy peopley bits are saved and OK. He's right and I've never forgotten it.... You did well love.