Hi and welcome. What meds did you try? Have you spoken to your doctor about them? There are many different types of AD and some might not suit you where others might. But, as Jaq says, it does take a few weeks for side effects to pass and it’s often a case of bearing with it for a little while.

Wrt your partner, it’s so tough when they have no idea what help you need. I know my husband copes a lot better when he’s clear on his role in getting me through any crisis. Could it be you’ve told him how you feel, which can be very scary to hear, but not explained what you need from him?