Mirtazapine effects & mood gym *SU Trigger*

[john82]

I really, really think you need to talk to your GP about your meds - if you can’t get to see this MH guy there’s no point them referring you to him.

And please speak to your girlfriend, lovely

I'm wary of seeing other Dr's due to them constantly changing my meds & all the side effects I've had. At least with the current meds I've no side effects.

[Paula]

But if they’re not working, you need to find something that does. If you want to get your life back, you need to make changes.....

[Suzi]

Why aren't you talking to your partner? You're "not interested"? That seems harsh... She obviously loves and cares for you so it might help her too if you spoke to her. It doesn't have to be about the big stuff, just about the weather or something or maybe you could go for a walk in the woods or something together?

[john82]

Why aren't you talking to your partner? You're "not interested"? That seems harsh... She obviously loves and cares for you so it might help her too if you spoke to her. It doesn't have to be about the big stuff, just about the weather or something or maybe you could go for a walk in the woods or something together?

I just don't see the point in talking about it she never seems interested she can't help the situation. I spoke to my sister yesterday but nothing really helps. It doesn't take away the constant sick feeling the worrying etc

[Stella180]

No side effect is great providing they are working for you. If you’re backsliding that might suggest they aren’t helping enough.

[Suzi]

Stella and Paula are completely right.
You don't have to talk to your partner about your mental health all the time, talk to her about other things - talk about the weather, it doesn't matter, just talk to her. It'll help build up your relationship so you can talk about your health too...

[john82]

Had another appointment cancelled today with the mental health practitioner two in a row now don't see the point in trying a 3rd time.

[Suzi]

Then go and see your doctor. Tell them why you are there and not seeing the mh practitioner...

[john82]

So far today's been odd it's my birthday and I've tried to snap out of it and be more positive my gf's gone to alot of trouble lots of gifts made me a cake, had afternoon tea delivered my sister & nephew have been up to sit in the garden along with my mum & dad and yet I don't seem to find any joy or happiness atm it's bad but I'm thinking I just wish they hadn't bothered and leave me alone.

[Suzi]

Happy birthday!
Did you think about calling the doctors?