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    Union won't do anything plus he's my line manager so I need to stay friendly or he'll make work hell,plus they've been overpaying me for months which I'm still trying to sort out.

    The guy I saw the other day told me not to increase my hours as I was struggling, but my esa was due to run out in Jan and I don't think I qualify for anymore support so I'm stuck atm.

    I'm open to going back on meds but nothing which I'd become dependent on as it was horrible withdrawing last time.

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    You can always reapply for ESA?
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    I didn't think you got it past 12 months? I'm sure they'll be some reason I don't qualify partner working full time etc

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    There are different types of esa - one is income related and one is support based. I’ve been on support based for years, my husband works full time and I wouldn’t be eligible for income based. Talk to someone (eg citizens advice), hun, and figure out what you can do
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    There are different types of esa - one is income related and one is support based. I’ve been on support based for years, my husband works full time and I wouldn’t be eligible for income based. Talk to someone (eg citizens advice), hun, and figure out what you can do
    Ive got a meeting with the job centre soon as the esa I was on ends soon.

    Another horrible night at work got pulled in the office questioned about when I'm upping my hours as I cant stay on 3.5 a day.,we've bent over backwards to help you we could have sacked you for being off for so long etc. We'll have a chat about your hours in January. I was so annoyed felt sick all evening afterwards I know I need to up my hours the reason there low is because I'm struggling told them this and the consultant physiatrist advised me not to increase them.

    My heads all over the place at the moment

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    You know that's not actually allowed to put pressure on you....
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    You know that's not actually allowed to put pressure on you....
    Apparently

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    I really think you should get some advice on this...
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    I really think you should get some advice on this...
    I know but unsure who to ask there is a union at work but if I involve them it'll just get there backs up more

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    Citizens advice will help
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