Hi, It’s been a difficult time for me recently and the last few days have been particularly upsetting. The one positive point for me is I now know where I stand. One problem is that for the foreseeable future my wife and I need to share the marital home. I think we can deal with things amicably but I do find it tough at times.

I’m meeting my sister this evening for a chat. She recently went through a divorce and I’m sure she’ll understand how I feel and impart some sympathy and sound advice.

I’m a bit battered and bruised but I’m still here looking forward and not back (most of the time).