Hi and welcome. Whilst a symptom of depression is pulling away from those you love because you may not think you deserve them, or they'd be better off without you or you're bringing them down too etc being nasty isn't. You say he was trying to set you up - what do you mean? Ideas of another woman - what that he's involved with another woman?
What things has he asked you to change about yourself?

Sweetheart whilst he may have stuff to deal with, you are important and valid and actually the way that you feel is important too..