Hi frank and welcome . Well done for being honest with your wife and your doctor, that really is the first step towards recovery. But recovery won’t happen overnight, it took you years to get to this point and it will take time to get back to where things were. You are, however, nearer today than you were 10 weeks ago . You have come to the right place for support, everyone here understands what you’re going through and we are all friendly and supportive