I have faced it myself. I think it is always good to believe in yourself, to believe in values is good but also personal beliefs which would define you and who you are. Values are a part of your personal beliefs. Enemies are not important, and never should be important in your life in anyway in your life. Its good to be open and honest with everyone, i think that it will help you in tough situations with people and it will define friendships and make love better. You do have alot of good values. I believe that you will do what is best.