How to let go

[Tom6544]

Hi Suzi,

Thank you for the response - I chose not to have contact for around 6 months due to my mental health not stable as it was not fair on my children.

Only around a year ago me and my ex were getting and we agreed that i would start seeing them again we both went to social services to sort it and 1 hour before my assessment and contact she rang them and told them she does not want me having contact and she wants me to go to court.
She knows full well i would not be able to afford to go to court even working full time I'm just stuck

[Ezra A Adams]

Hi Suzi,

Thank you for the response - I chose not to have contact for around 6 months due to my mental health not stable as it was not fair on my children.

Only around a year ago me and my ex were getting and we agreed that i would start seeing them again we both went to social services to sort it and 1 hour before my assessment and contact she rang them and told them she does not want me having contact and she wants me to go to court.
She knows full well i would not be able to afford to go to court even working full time I'm just stuck

Tom - Would not the CPS mean the court was free? If I were you I would go to Citizens Advice Bureau and check out your rights.

[Suzi]

Hi Suzi,

Thank you for the response - I chose not to have contact for around 6 months due to my mental health not stable as it was not fair on my children.

Only around a year ago me and my ex were getting and we agreed that i would start seeing them again we both went to social services to sort it and 1 hour before my assessment and contact she rang them and told them she does not want me having contact and she wants me to go to court.
She knows full well i would not be able to afford to go to court even working full time I'm just stuck

Would she not agree to using a contact centre? What are the reasons she has for refusing access? Have you spoken to SS about it?

[Tom6544]

Would she not agree to using a contact centre? What are the reasons she has for refusing access? Have you spoken to SS about it?

I tried contact centre but she refused it and turned everything down.

She gives different reasons each time - She doesn't trust me, She thinks im going to run off with them, Even sometimes telling they are not mine. But now i cannot contact her at all as she has blocked everything from me so she can live with her new partner.