Onto ‘you don’t do much around the house’ ...... you look after your mum, you take her to all her appointments (practically a full time job right there), you deal with her medication, you nag her to make choices that would improve her life, you bake for crying out loud - you’d be paying your full board doing that alone in my house! What you do for her is something not many would do, and that’s care. Where’s your brother and sister when that has to happen?