We’ve been with the in laws today - went out for lunch at came back to ours for birthday cake and a coffee in the garden. I’m exhausted now though - my MIL has the knack of saying exactly the wrong thing to me. She was asking why I wasn’t drinking so I told her about the problems with words I’ve been having. To be told, well, it happens when you haven’t worked for a while ........ (she did have to eat her words a bit when I told her that, not only am I working, I’m also doing it voluntarily!)