Perhaps if you both look at the Time to Change website it may help your conversations https://www.time-to-change.org.uk
New anti-depressants take 4-8 weeks to really take effect and every time you start/change the meds the 4-8 weeks starts over. Plus, if you’ve been coming off other ADs, you’ll be experiencing withdrawal symptoms. Lovely, your body is going through a lot of changes at the moment so you really need to take time to look after yourself